Some people like myself need to adjust to the pleasure produced by masturbation toys/devices otherwise you will think they are bunk and not worth it, this is a simple guide on how to use the toy and understand better why its different than your hand.
Some of us start to play with our penis and achieve orgasm before we are even able to ejaculate, before puberty even sets in and then we learn what we are doing and eventually our body's produce ejaculate and we experience the touch of another person getting us off. From the point we begin to play with ourselves until we die we typically use our hand to experience a toe curling hip thrusting pleasure. Sometimes some of us seek out things we can use to help us, most guys who do will typically just buy a flashlight or another type of penis sleeve but in retrospect even with those masturbation aids we are still using out hand. A small part of us will seek out and/or build a device to use those sleeves to do all the work for us and sometimes its difficult to get off that first time.
When I first used a masturbation toy it was my robosuck 2, it didnt work and I ened up using my hand, I eventually took apart the device and used the sleeve that was inside to masturbate but it took me a few times to get use to the feeling. At the time I was still a virgin and yeah the sleeve still felt good but it was almost too good, it basically took me several times to cum inside the sleeve for the first time. If you are like me and have the same problem here are a few tips.
You need a relaxed place, some where no one will bother you and a time you know you have no engagements to attend. The relaxed state is very important otherwise you will want to simple rush your orgasim and not experiance the full pleasure.
It is best if you have waited at least a day or two without cumming, unless you have PE then this guide may not be a problem at all for you.
The best way to start is to start watching a porn and get erect, you do not want to be inside the toy yet, you simply want to enjoy being erect with nothing touching your penis, avoid hand contact because this is what your body knows.
While watching the porn, lube up the toy with proper lube (water based for most because oil and other lotions will destroy most toys). Lube up your penis but avoid stroking or touching it as much as possible, remember you don't want to use your hand and not giving your mind the ability to associate your hand to penis with pleasure will greatly help you have a toe curling, mind screaming, hip thrusting orgasm.
When you are ready insert yourself into the sleeve or toy and turn on the machine or start moving the toy up and down if its manual. Keep at a steady pace and remember your not trying to shoot your load fast your trying to make the toy suck the cum out of you. Typically you want to start out slow and slowly move up to a faster speed once your about to cum. Keep at this steady pace and eventually you will have absolutely no control of if your going to cum or not and then just ride with it speeding up the device if you want focusing on the pleasure.
After you have cum keep the machine going for as long as you can tolerate it and this will reinforce with your mind that this device is giving you pleasure beyond what your hand can do.
Sometimes this will take more than one try, so just keep it up and eventually as long as its a good toy you will experience an orgasm that is identical to one during sex or even better.
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